How to Attract Men

(This is part two of a two-part article; click here for part one on ‘How to Be Attractive to Men’)

Now, let’s move on to personality traits that attract men.

When people ask me what is the one thing all guys are looking for, my answer is always the same: confidence.

Girl, you have to love yourself before others love you. On a subconscious level, men (and any person for that matter) can tell whether you like yourself or not. This tells them a lot about you. If even you are not happy with the way you are, they’ll feel you’re not even worth getting to know.

The other thing that is really key in order to attract to men is a positive attitude. You have to be the girl who’s smiling all the time, the girl who’s having the best time and the girl who simply enjoys life. Men like being around positive women because they get pumped with their happiness along the way.

This also means that you should be energetic, so make sure you sleep enough to be up all day. I have to say that getting good sleep is probably one of the best ways to boost your state, and it also makes you look healthier.

Now, I said you have to smile. This implies that you have to be nice and caring too. Every man will be glad he’s talking to you if you’re warm.

Respect Sign

Don’t Just Tolerate Any Behavior

However, never forget that you too have boundaries. You have to know exactly how much you are ready to take from a man and what you won’t tolerate. If he’s not treating you right, just get out of there. You’ll earn his respect and he won’t do it again. And if he does… well then he’s just not worth being in your mind.

By the way, I have mentioned several times talking to men. I know you may not be the greatest conversationalist right now (and if you are, great for you!), but having the gift of the gab is… well, a gift that you can earn. How do you get better at talking? By talking some!

Finally, don’t forget that in the end, you have to be yourself. This advice I give you on how to attract men only works if you’re being genuine.

If you want more information on how you can start implementing these habits so that they are second nature to you, make sure you check out ‘Men Made Easy’.

One Response to How to Attract Men
  1. Rihanna
    December 20, 2012 | 11:21 pm

    wow it really got me a man straight away great advice guys thx:)

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