Whether you’re at school, at work, at the beach, at a party or just hanging out, you have to know that your best weapon is knowing how to flirt with a guy.
Before I start handing you out my best tips, you have to know that flirting is all about having fun. You have to enjoy the moment, let go of your hang-ups and be in the moment. It is natural that you feel attracted to a man and that he feels the same way about you.
Also, don’t forget that you have to show up to meet guys, so don’t forget to be social and go out.
That being said, there’s a few things you need to keep in mind when you’re flirting with a guy.
Tip: Show him your best side!
OK, so maybe you have magnificent hair. Or perhaps you have beautiful eyes. Whatever your poison is, don’t forget that you’ll catch his attention first with your looks, so make sure you draw his attention to what you want him to see.
Make sure too that you’re confident about your self-image too. This may come as a surprise to you, but the way you see yourself has a big impact in the way people see you.
Tip: Let him know you’re interested!
Nothing says don’t talk to me like crossed arms. On the other hand, eye contact and a smile are screaming “I’m a cute girl, you definitely want to get to know me.” So make sure you keep that grumpy look at home and smile like you mean it!
Watch out though, flirting is all about pushing and pulling, so once it’s on, make sure you play with him a little before giving yourself. This creates anticipation and is not only fun, but it also makes the guy realize you’re not an easy girl.
Tip: Stay close to each other!
Listen here, it is key that you’re either sitting or standing very close to each other. This is the only way the dreaded touch barrier is going to fall! Once you’re talking, it’ll only feel natural to brush his arm or have any other kind of casual physical contact –if you’re close enough.
However, if you’re too far away, what will you do? Reach out and grab his arm? Hello! That is weird!
So again, make sure you can touch each other ‘without noticing’. Also, don’t forget that he doesn’t have to be first to do it, this is just an extension of your open body language and you have to be ready to touch him too.
Tip: Make sure you hit that ‘point of no return’!
After all, now you can sense that you like each other, so what you want is to be in isolation with him. Make sure your friends know this, so that they can leave the two of you alone. He’ll do the same with his friends.
Now you can start relating to each other and feel a bond grow between the two of you.
I hope this is enough to get you started. For much more information on this subject, you can check out ‘Secrets of Flirting’, which contains heaps of advice on how to flirt with a guy.