Many women have the fantasy of love at first sight. However, it doesn’t always happen that way. Perhaps you want to get a guy to like you, or maybe you’re not sure if he does already. Don’t worry, if you follow these steps, he’ll be chasing you in no time!
The first thing you should know is that if you want a man to like you, you have to like yourself first. This doesn’t mean that you have to be full of yourself, but rather that you have to be confident and project that you’re happy with the way you are.
The reason for this is very simple: if you don’t like yourself, your guy will sense it and, even if doesn’t see anything wrong with you, he’ll assume there has to be something or otherwise you wouldn’t act that way.
I threw out the word ‘confidence’ a couples of sentences ago, and it’s not to be taken lightly. Confidence is believing you deserve the man you like, and it’s also putting yourself out there for him. If you hide, he won’t find out how awesome you are!
This gets me to my next point: you have to make him notice you.
If you haven’t talked to him, do it! You won’t be approaching and starting a conversation, that would be very needy. Create an occasion to say ‘hi’, and only that. After three or four days of saying ‘hi’, you could add ‘how are you doing?’, and by progressively extending your conversations, it will naturally flow. What I’m saying is: be a knob, not a switch.
Once you’re talking it’s all about spending some time together. When you’re with him, open your body language and focus on him. Be careful though, you must avoid being too needy. You have to give the impression that you’re open to being seduced, but you’re not convinced by him just yet. When he does something nice for you, reward him; sometimes a smile goes a long way.
Another thing you should consider is attracting him physically. You should always try to look your best when you’re with him. It’s important that you wear clothes that make you look your best, perhaps some makeup, and so on.
Also, make sure that whatever you wear fits your own style. This means that it must be congruent with the way you are. If you don’t like pink, don’t wear it just because you think he’ll like it. If he senses you’re doing something you hate just for him, he’ll feel like you’re trying too hard and it will kill attraction.
One final tip: if you tell your friends, make sure you can trust them, and they won’t accidentally give hints to the fact that you like the guy, because you definitely don’t want him to find out that you like him that way!
Anyway, if you follow these steps, you shouldn’t have any trouble getting the guy you want to like you. For a lot more information on this subject, you should have look at ‘The Woman Men Adore… and Never Want to Leave’, which is packed with tips on how to attract the man of your dreams.