Many women think that men don’t appreciate good sex, but this is a very widespread misconception. Guys, just like us, do feel different after having intercourse with a woman who knows how to please a man sexually. If he likes what you do, it will affect the way he treats you and how much he wants you.
There is a lot you can do in the bedroom to make him enjoy it, but ultimately practice is the key. However, let me outline a few concepts that will give ideas to get you started.
First of all, I have to say that sex is something that involves the five senses, it is an experience where stimulus has to come in every possible way.
This means you should not forget to stimulate him visually when you’re in bed. You can turn him on during sex by wearing some sexy lingerie, or even before by wearing no underwear. Find out what your man wants, so that you can fulfill his wishes.
Moving on to another sense, I want to mention dirty talk. Most men enjoy women who talk dirty. This could be a problem if you’re not comfortable with your sexuality, which affects you not only here, but pretty much in every aspect of pleasing a man sexually.
If it’s your case, don’t worry. Make sure you take small but steady steps outside of your comfort zone and you will eventually get there.
Another thing you should aim proficiency at is touching him. Do not be afraid to do this. While doing it, you’ll find out where and how he likes to be touched, so make sure you start doing this and pay good attention to how he reacts to you every move.
On top of touching, I have to say that probably the best tool out there to please a man is the blowjob. If you have never done this before, get to know it and learn to enjoy it. Oral sex changes the dynamic of intercourse, turning it into a much fulfilling experience.
Make sure you know exactly how to do it right, because if you’re not good, it will turn him off. However, if you give good head, you will literally blow his mind. He will feel like he’s never had such good sex.
I will also make a note on the psychological aspects of sex.
Now for men, most of the intercourse revolves around the physical (believe or not, women tend to favor emotions), so it is what you should take care of most urgently.
However, men appreciate variance, which is the reason why they are so prone to cheat. If you include variance though, this won’t be a problem. So make sure you’re not only having great sex in each other’s beds, but rather do something fancy once in a while. Maybe have sex in the kitchen or get a hotel room, just be creative. Oh, and if you feel adventurous… make sure you don’t get caught!
Finally, don’t forget to compliment him on how good he was. Making him feel like a man is definitely a fulfillment booster for him.
I know that I have been quite brief in my explanations on how to actually do the things you have to do, so if this feels like a checklist which requires more explanation, check out ‘Blow by Blow’, which is the book when it comes to pleasing men, and is full of resources which will make your man crazy about you.